Show me one person that can keep their head up continually in times of adversity.
There is something that people forget to do. Turn to the people that really care about you. The people that you know have your best interest at heart. One mistake people make is trusting the wrong people with their feelings and thoughts. The people that really really care are the ones that have shown you time and time that they are there for you when you feel that you don't need them. Then you know when you need them, they are MORE than eager to lend their support and encouragement. A real friend is not someone that gives you empty advice. It is the person that knows you so well that they acknowledge how difficult some decisions are going to be in your life. They remind you that you've been through too much already to deserve this.
These are some of my closest friends and family :) :)
Lessons are meant to be learnt in life. Mistakes are meant to be made. However, mistakes do not NEED to be made more than once. If you have already gone through something in your life that seemed difficult and impossible to overcome and one way or another you surprised yourself and persisted through your ups and downs. WHY would you willingly enter yourself into something that looks to be similar. Life is about LEARNING from your mistakes.
Stop..........and learn.
If something is wrong, sometimes your gut knows deep down that its best not to fix it. Be happy that you enjoyed it while it worked. Sometimes you're not experienced enough to fix it back to the quality that it was when you first got it. There is probably someone out there that is experienced enough or has the patience to do the work that needs to be done.
If you are torn about where you should be in your life and if you should be trying to fix something that was/is broken in your life ...try and fix it!! try the thing that is comfortable FIRST, go back where you were before, try it, get it out of your system if need be....If it does not work, then you know you are meant for bigger and better things...trust me...its is DEFINITELY what's best...
Well I hope for anyone that is going through anything in their life and they feel they are in a rut and feel lower than low...that you keep your head up and constantly remind yourself that there are better things in life to worry about...
Happy Lent and remember lent is a time of reflection and the best advice I received from my Mom is to rid yourself of everything that is toxic for the next 40 days....try it people...cleanse yourself of everything...food, drink, thoughts, people, smoking...anythingggg that is not good for your mind, health and body...You'll never regret it :)
Peace outttttt
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